I saw the mom next door yesterday. She had her hands full with the 2 kids and 2 other kids and her mom was there and she was overwhelmed and just in from work. She asked me how I've been and we had a generic conversation quickly. I didn't have the heart to lay that on her right then. She has never even gone in the pool, it's her husband. So I'm still waiting until I see him in person. But he is normally outside all the time and always texting us for this and that... and he is in complete hiding. So that tells me he knows he has overstepped boundaries. Anyway, I'm still going to mention it just so it's official when the time is right. Also, found the PERFECT lock for the fence. Combo on the outside and a latch on the inside so we can get in and out easily. But if you don't know the combo then you can't get in. Perfect!