Congratulations on shotgun Lunar! Thanks for the post Sao.
So I'm out at the family cabin, just me and my wife. I forgot that I know where all the alcohol is hidden. I was standing in the kitchen with a clear view of the deck when my wife appeared outside on the deck. I had an instant mental reaction "The coast is clear, you can take a swig from the vodka bottle in the pantry". This is what I use to do when I could see that all the family is safely outside. You may think you know all your triggers, but be careful, they can sneak up on you when you least expect it.