It must be difficult for you.
Hope you can find some support !
Sounds like your wife is going through tough times and changes.
So maybe best to just let her be....... What I mean is "don't ask her for anything"...don't bring up anything emotional. Just let her talk and you be there for her. I think the stuff she says that you are "jealous of her accomplishments"... (shes in rehab ). That is just her blabbing on... prob not her heart talking.
I am sure after 6 months she will be a different person...... You never know? So be prepared if she has changed. Be prepared to make changes too.
Hope this is ok ,, what I am saying. I have no experience. Just putting some stuff down as food for thought.
- MR