Hi all,
Thank you for the good wishes. He is still in the hospital and having more tests. It seems when the morphine wears off the pain comes back and is travelling around his back so they want to keep him where he is for the moment. So really no change , but he is making plans for when he gets out . He wants to get right and get back to work. He lost his job 8 years ago and boredom has been a huge factor in his alcoholism.
My dad is here to support him and my dad has 33 years sober so he knows what he is talking about. I'm on day 35 not counting the one slip that I had. This situation has reinforced my strength and though the AV raised its head yesterday and screamed I knew it was screaming because it was dying! I'm determined not to feed that demon again!
Thanks again everyone it means a lot and I will keep you all updated.
Xx Charli