The ball is in your court so to speak Stewy. As others have mentioned, there's really not much anyone here can tell you that hasn't been said many times over. You refuse rehab, you won't go to meetings, you keep pledging to "take action" but never do, and generally just keep drinking every day. You've lost a relationship over your drinking and you have come close to losing your job because of it. Your relationship with your daughter is probably going to be the next casualty.
What's it gonna take for you to actually do something about it? Loss of custody/visitation rights? Getting kicked out of your parent house? Getting fired? I hope none of those things happen but they are very probable if you don't quit screwing around with this. Take some responsibility for yourself and treat this as the emergency that it really is.