This is all so wonderful to hear Wisconsin. It sounds like you are in a good place in every respect. I am currently slogging through the divorce process and this:
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Wisconsin 
On the whole, now that the divorce is final (something that had been weighing me down emotionally much more than I realized), things are MUCH easier. I do not feel the need to keep the peace for the sake of getting the divorce done.
I just can't wait to get to this point. You have helped me remember there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you!