I swear, your story sounds like mine. My son has been the same way since he was born. Always in trouble always making problems. He's 38 now and the only thing that has changed is it has gotten worse. I mean worser than worse. In and out of the hospital for over doses, jail, you name it. It's impossible for us as parents to understand what is in them that makes them do such things with no regard for you, me or even their own selves.