Dandylion, how right you are. That is so important. My AH has quit 4 times and has gone to meeting after meeting but most of The time never worked on himself which is the actual recovery that needs to take place. He was essentially an angry but sober person. Geez, dare I say that he was more bearable while drinking! Someone once said here that they have to learn a whole different way of thinking, just as we are learning to do. We didn't become the way we are overnight and it's going to be a journey to make the change. Unfortunately some just don't seem to want it bad enough. That remains to be seen for my husband and yours also.
I'm new to SR as well and your story is similiar to mine. Keep posting, it does certainly seem to help.
