CaptainKitty,
It may be worthwhile to stop responding and not log in to see peoples responses and questions. You dont have to answer any questions. You do not owe anyone an explanation as to what you are doing. So, if you are moving on then move on and we will be here if you choose to come back.
We dont want you to leave though. IMO, the provoking questions are just to give varying opinions and to maybe help a person see things from a different perspective.
I wish you the best of luck.