For a long time, I felt I was almost bullied into things by my passivity and that made me do the least amount of work possible on things as some kind of silent resentment protest.
Ultimately that wasn't good or healthy for me.
Learning to speak up and risk conflict was a HUGE step for me - it took a while.
But...I really believe we need to be in the drivers seat for our own recovery
If you're feeling pressured or unsure about what you're being advised or suggested to do, why not write down your concerns - or print out your posts here - and deliver them to this person that way?
Oh and for what it's worth my posts here were my journal - it helped me a lot
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