I was just remembering another alcoholism forum (defunct now, alas) where a new member arrived with guns a-blazin', climbing all over everyone for not being sensitive or empathetic enough.
Within a year, she became one of the most valuable members of the forum, with a strong, contented sobriety. Her empathic nature helped her gain a remarkably clear insight into how to be of help to other alcoholics who still suffered.
I see a great potential for you, captainkitty!