Your AH's friend should man up and call your AH directly and leave you out of it. now, if he had been calling to see if YOU were ok, safe, secure, that would be one thing - but asking you to relay messages FOR him - uh NO. you are not anyone's errand girl or messenger service. these aren't two 8 year olds standing at opposite corners of the sandbox that need adult intervention and supervision. NOT YOUR PROBLEM.