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Old 09-17-2005, 06:30 PM
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thanks, Girlfriend, that was what i think and feel too, just needed to hear someone else saying that too, you know.... and i'm quite sure that if he switched back to drinking he'd be dead soon. it would be either booze killing him or his own hand. i don't want that to happen, i don't want to enable him to continue to drink by giving him my "unflinching support" (as he calls it). i know my mom made the same mistake with my dad. and her dad was also alcoholic. i don't want to go through any same patterns. i know he has no right to feel "hurt". if i told him i'd be there even if he switched back to drinking that would be enabling him. not to mention, that my nerves would never handle that. i had enough of bad drunk scenes for my whole life.
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