He ended the relationship so I dont believe its my place to do that.
What I find hard is when your receiving messages asking for help how do you know whether its genuine or manipulation.
He is staying with a family member so surely if hes in their presence messaging me such things they must be able to see it and help him. Or is it just for my benefit and he seems fine to them.
I love him and holding back the urge to just hug him and tell him everything will be ok is so hard but I know Im doing the best thing for us both.
He has already hit the ground with a big bang this past week since we split. Its hard to see.