He was constantly belittling me. He reckoned I had aboriginal in me which is total crap as I am as white as a ghost. He did crazy artwork with paint in my toilet which needs painting over. I bought new clothes and he made mean comments. I couldn't cook in front of him because he would just carry on that I was doing it wrong. This has all been in the past week. That's all besides the money thing. I'm only saying all this in the hope with some support I can break this horrible cycle. Wine has run out. I googled rational recovery. Just can't absorb it.