Not crazy, just a lil unwell
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Out of my mind, please leave a message
Posts: 115
I would spend the day doing something for yourself as long as your H is not around. What I did this last anniversary was made a nice dinner to acknowledge all the many many years of our marriage, but nothing else. My marriage to me feels very very over, but I would not discuss separation on my anniversary day no matter what. That's just me.
I'm sorry you're going through so much turmoil. I know I went through my entire anniversary day with my stomach like hurricane. It was awful.