Bombings suck.
STD- perhaps ask your co worker if when she dies- could she please do it quietly and in an area where her carcass can be hauled away with a minimum of fuss. As to the whining- I have been crapping on about CBT stuff I am doing as homework. One method to deal with whining- is just to agree with everything they say- then they got no where to go with what to whine about.