My husband was released from detox this morning. He does not want to do another rehab so the Dr. suggested Antabuse which I will have to give him every morning with his breakfast. It will make him physically sick if he drinks and if he refuses to take it I will grind into his food. He also was giving 2 weeks worth of Valium for his anxiety although I heard you can abuse that. I just want to put it out there that I am not leaving my husband. I refuse to go on "public assistance". My husband has been at the same job for more than 10 yrs. Not too bad for a drunk. I think he needs to work more to get his mind off things and, to be honest, (as someone said) a jury trial is going to be extremely costly. With the daughter moving out it will be one less mouth to feed at least. She has been a nightmare since the age of 15 and I have tried everything to help her.