let's do the math:
first dui in '95, it's now 2017, 22 years.
50 meetings.
average? 2 meetings per YEAR.
that's like going to the gym two times a year and saying it doesn't work.
for some reason you seem unable to recognize how serious the problem is. you say your daughter wants to play grown up, at 18, and you look forward to her departure based on the fights she had with her drunk father. repeatedly you DEFEND your AH, in spite of the evidence of the damage HE has created.
i don't relish the thought of your partner going to prison, but i feel that the drunk driving laws HAVE to be tightened up. SIX driving while under the influence arrests is about six too many. obviously he isn't getting the message. what if his 7th is vehicular homicide?? we are talking public safety here.