Suze,
I am writing this to express my total support for you and your decisions. I admire a love like yours; so strong and forgiving. We all make mistakes, some obviously bigger than others, but everyone deserves the chance to make things right, in my very humble opinion.
I know wholeheartedly that you are cherished by so many. Your's is one of the first threads I followed religiously when I was still a lurker, because of your compassion and kindness. You have not changed; just your circumstances.
Honey, you do what you think is best for you and Nick. No one knows what you should do better than the two of you. Your love and future together is worth fighting for.
Just remember, " you can't please all of the people all of the time.."
Don't let others deter you from the path you two think is the right one.
Trust your instincts...
Wishing you and Nick a beautiful and exciting future. Do the work and reap the benefits..
Much love and support,
Croutie