Last two weeks I have challenged him (not on purpose but bc I'm tired of pretending everything is ok) and the same outbursts from him.
Then we didn't speak the rest of the night and went to bed. I tried to make peace, but he wasn't having it.
but you STILL let him in, you STILL listen to his opinions as if they are coming out of some flaming bush, you still try to molly coddle him, you still feed him, have sex with him, let him sleep in your bed.
you can psychoanalyze HIM all you want here, but you are missing the point.......this isn't about HIM. what he thinks, feels, how HE reacts, it is supposed to be about you.
no matter what he does, YOU let him in.
no matter what he says, YOU let him stay.