Sao, thank you for the new thread and a thought provoking opener. It resonates with me very much.
I am heading for a week's holiday to my brother and his wife. He drinks a lot and gauges people's worth by their profession and earning capacity. He is disdainful of me because I gave up a good profession. I'm still trying to build a better relationship with him as we all get older, hence my trip. The last time I was with him and my sister and extended family 18 months ago, I felt like a pariah because I wasn't drinking. They all were and the rubbish they spouted off! Same old tired family stories. Anyway, staying close to SR was a lifesaver. I will be close by again!
A good and safe, sober weekend to all.