Working, being a mom and a wife can be hard
unless you are a displaced person who can't GET a job
or a woman who cannot conceive
or a woman alone afraid to even try to date and maybe meet someone
i remember one day when i was running around doing all the mom/wife/working stuff and thinking "god i HAVE to do this this and this" and i had a full stop moment.....no wait.........
i GET to those things. i am BLESSED to have a child who needs her parent to be fully engaged. i GET to be involved. i GET to be her mom.
think about what you are saying, albeit silently, to your kids.....you guys bore the F out of me and i can't wait til you are in bed so i can have FUN aka drink.
as we grow and mature our definitions change.