Thanks everyone!!
I'll update you on how things go..... this is coming up in few weeks, out in Portland.
I'm actually kind of looking forward to observing a bachelor party from the vantage point of a sober guy looking out for the crew and getting them home safe.
I'm at least ten years all these guys' senior, so I will just go in 'older brother mode' and observe and celebrate from a place of sobriety and wisdom.
One thing I've noticed is that when these moments of thoughts arrive out of the blue - if I take the time to observe them, see them for what they are, share them, maybe even poke a little fun at the nonsensical nature of them... then by the time the real thing comes along I've put it all behind me and I am feeling good and happy and proud in my sobriety.
Thanks for always being here.