Originally Posted by
BD84 
I know I dont need to drink. Thats why I have to tell my buddy I am not going right? If he dosent understand then thats on him.
You have your answer right here. People miss events all the time for all sorts of reasons. In this particular case you have a very good reason. And if he doesn't understand your reason that's his problem, not yours.
Your addiction loves to present these kinds of scenarios though - open the crack in the door just a little bit..don't let it.