LOL, LadyBlue! Sound like something that would happen to me!
SAH here's a quote that may help: "Not everyone deserves to know the real you. Let them criticize who they think you are." I've also felt the way you feel....sometimes I still do. I deleted my facebook account years back and that really helped. Now since I don't go downtown anymore, I think
screw it, let the rumors fly, and focus on ME for a change!