Last night he did an oz of coke because we got in an argument about finances
Dear Wlkingonglass - i hope you know he did not use because of an argument. he used the argument AS HIS EXCUSE.
sorry but there is no way he did an OUNCE of coke in one night. however, amounts aside, he's still using. he is nowhere NEAR recovery if that is his "solution" to a disagreement.
recovery isn't about will power. it's about accepting that one can never use again. making the DECISION and renewing the commitment to not using again under any circumstances, no matter what, not even if it's free. and then doing whatever it takes.
i'm sorry you still find yourself embroiled in someone else's addiction. is no way to live.