"Living in a place that isn't comfortable for them."
Yup. Nothing is perfect, but life is short, & we get to choose our story!!
And the best part is that when we make a true choice - no matter how complicated - we receive new strength and energy!
Being true to yourself feeds the self, and suddenly you are inhabiting a new self, who is oddly stronger and surer than the previous one!
Don't wait for strength to be strong! Being strong begets additional power!!