i have found it difficult to have a discussion here with questions where there is just exchange, and clarification, and questions are understood as asking for thoughts/opinions/information only, and not seen as somehow an attack.
anyway, that is equally true, i suspect, for other posters who go to other forums and run into defensiveness from those ardently convinced of the obviousness and total merit of their path.
i am an inquisitive person, like to ask and ruminate about concepts, like to understand how others see what seems contradictory, and like to engage in conversation about it.
i miss that.