Thank you Dee and MMT for your advice. I have started to draft up an itinerary to keep me busy for the week and away from temptation. Oh boy, this is going to be a hard one...what a pickle I have gotten myself into. I am hoping to find a fun group of people for her to drink with so that the pressure is off me as I want her to have a good time, that way she won't even care whether I am drinking or not. It is so weird to me that while I was drinking that I planned everything around it and now everything to avoid it. What an upside-down life! Happy Friday everyone....J9