Hi, abb. Sorry for what has happened.
That being said, I am pretty sure there are posters to this site who have changed some details of their story for the sake of privacy.
You should probably contact one of the site administrators, Dee, Anna, or DesertEyes, in a private message to make sure, but they might be able to help you create a new profile and have advice to keep it private.
They are good people who give a lot of their time to keeping this site the awesome place that it is, and I hate to see you have to leave.
Just a thought. Good luck and hugs.