My spouse drinks. I no longer do. She stopped bring ing it in the house until I told her I was cool with it. I think it was about three months. It worked well.
I really don't think this is too much to ask, and you may need to have a big talk about plans and stuff. I think this is especially important for couples that party together. My wife married a party-guy. Drinking was a major hobby of ours. She could not know that I would slide into an abyss and hence, have to quit.
So, I was honest and gentle with her and she was with me. If I told her today that the beer in the fridge was a problem, she would remove it. -the rules can change, as long as your honest.