We have had that talk. I don't blame him that I relapsed at all. He is cutting back and will quit in his own time, but in the meantime, it does make it difficult when it's in the house. I won't ask him to quit just because I'm quitting because I would resent someone asking me to quit when I'm not ready to.
I just need to find ways to stay strong in the temptation. Like you said, temptation is everywhere.
I in no way blame my husband. I want to make that clear.
I appreciate the tips you gave. I haven't thought about going to meetings, but I may end up doing so at some point. I want to try doing this on my own first, though. I wouldn't be comfortable standing up and talking in a room full of strangers. I'm glad it's helpful for others, but I don't think it would be for me. I'm not saying never, though. Just not right now.
Thanks for the reply!
