Originally Posted by
Casseopia 
Hi Lexie,
I have seen a lawyer. Annulment is more expensive than divorce because we would have to go to court whereas our divorce is pretty straightforward.
I know it's childish and will do me no good but since I found out he's planning to get married again, I don't want to sign the divorce papers. Although if there's one thing I have learned recently, feelings change.
Yes the alcohol really was the least of what I discovered.
OK, that's a good reason to go for the divorce then. I'd urge you not to drag your feet on signing the papers. You don't have to complete the mourning process first, and if you're hoping to mess him up (AKA "get even") by not signing, that is a REALLY bad idea. That's stooping to his level, it won't give you any satisfaction, and actually might harm you. You already know, no doubt, that there's nothing that will prevent the divorce from going through anyway, and being obstructionist for its own sake never pays.