you've been with SR for 8 years now. that's a long time to be trying to crawl up a greased rock.
your AH has been pretty consistent.....lying selfish addict. perhaps it's time to quit EXPECTING him to behave any differently. to accept that this IS who he IS, this IS what he does, and he's not going to change.
if you adjust your attitude and expectations, what would that change FOR YOU?