I did the same loveandmagic.
I kicked my fiancé out expecting the dramatic movie cut scene of her hitting rock bottom and seeing the light. Complete with Morgan Freeman voice over.
It didn't come.
His may still happen. But my hope for you is that you are too strong and happy to be caught in the web again.
You and your bodacious butt deserve to be with someone who appreciates you and lifts you up to the next level rather than makes you feel bad and drags you down to theirs.
We all do.