tomsteve

its not as simple as you chose to self sabotage or there is no answer.
there ARE answers AND solutions.

for me
fear of success. because with success comes the possibility of failure.
low self esteem- didn't feel I was worth a good life.
low self worth- same as above.

just to name a few

I couldn't learn that,though, until I had stopped drinking and was sober for a while. the answer and solutions didn't come about by just putting the plug in the jug. I worked a program of recovery and that program for me was AA