thotful.....I can imagine how painful this is for you....
I am glad that you have a counselor to help you....
You might find this book helpful...."Healing from Family Rifts" by Mark Sichel...
You can get it, used, on amazon.com.
Since you are the adult child of an alcoholic....You might, also, want to read the literature of "Adult Children of Alcoholics"......
Also, available on amazon.com....and, through your l ocal library.
Has your mother ever seen your daughter?