Very good question. I am right about where you are in my sobriety. And you know what? It's ok to be selfish. It is REQUIRED this early on, right now, in my opinion. If this person is a "drinking buddy" I would stay far away. If, however, this person is a good friend then be there as much as you can without compromising your sobriety. I have found, like another person said, that my "friends" have not checked on me since I started this journey. But I am ok with that. I am not in their "club" anymore, and they don't know what to do with me. My new "club", however, is much more bad ass. Never feel guilty about putting your sobriety first. It's a matter of Life and Death.
