So sorry for what brings you here. Loving an alcoholic brings with it so much grief.
Originally Posted by
Ocean35000 I will keep going forward, either with him sober or alone but going backwards to the insanity, the hurt, chaos and drama is no longer an option for me. I will no longer accept the unacceptable
I think your decision to move forward--either with him sober, or on your own--is certainly within your rights and probably the only wise decision you can make.
The thing about ultimatums, they are only as powerful as your ability to follow through with it.
Good luck.