Oh gosh, this brings back so many memories from my older DD. She is still a little awkward sometimes, she is just old enough now not to care, and has a very strong personality so she tolerates no one being unkind to her.
Right now there is some very mild things in my younger DD's class, but she has not gotten caught up in it. We tried all sorts of things and sending my older DD to another school is what ended up being game changing for her. She was like a different person, definitely a good move, but not something everyone has the option to do.
Tight hugs. I remember being very scattered and unfocused during that time because I was constantly worried.
I get it friend, and am here for you! PM me anytime you need a buddy!