How many times did I or (we) keep our mouths shut today ?
Sometimes the mind wants to control everything and everyone. Am I trying to manipulate others into carrying out the way in which I think the world should act? Is it truly for the best of all concerned or, mostly for my own self centered needs?
Maybe I should keep my mouth shut on this one for a while?
Take some time to consider the possible outcome?
If others are pushed too hard they may retaliate?
Maybe I'm wanting others to do something that I wouldn't want to do myself?
Reflect, reflect -- consider the out come for ALL involved.
MB
#2 below seems to fit well.
ma·nip·u·late
məˈnipyəˌlāt/
verb
verb: manipulate; 3rd person present: manipulates; past tense: manipulated; past participle: manipulated; gerund or present participle: manipulating
1.
handle or control (a tool, mechanism, etc.), typically in a skillful manner.
"he manipulated the dials of the set"
synonyms:
operate, work; More
turn, pull
"he manipulated some knobs and levers"
alter, edit, or move (text or data) on a computer.
examine or treat (a part of the body) by feeling or moving it with the hand.
"a system of healing based on manipulating the ligaments of the spine"
synonyms:
massage, rub, knead, feel, palpate
"she manipulated the muscles of his back"
2.
control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously.
"the masses were deceived and manipulated by a tiny group"
synonyms:
control, influence, use/turn to one's advantage, exploit, maneuver, engineer, steer, direct, gerrymander; twist someone around one's little finger
"the government tried to manipulate the situation"