Originally Posted by
Missandy I was just curious because I am not an alcoholic and I do not understand what he is going thru.
We aren't on bad terms, he just was honest and said a relationship was too much pressure for him.
Of course, I was angry, sometimes still am angry and noticed my old codependent ways popping back up so I got myself back to alanon and therapy. I just wanted him to know I am proud, do love him and am being supportive from afar.
It sounds like he's broken things off and is focusing on his sobriety.
He'll get in touch with you if he wants to. Otherwise I would just move on with your life and not obsess over what they are doing.