Thank you for your thoughts everyone.
The big thing with her is that she wants to stop but wont take any outside help to assist with it. She is extremely stubborn to say the least! She wants to learn to control herself but we have proven more than I can count how many times that the alcohol takes control every single time.
I am trying very hard not to loose hope and I am not one for giving up, but i am really scared of that coming for me sooner rather than later. That is why I found this site in hopes that maybe I can find some help for myself to be stronger.
I am not a big church person but I have been wanting to start going and maybe looking into some support groups. I know there are some good ones around, I just need to locate them.
I will check out the friends and family site here and possibly take my story there. Maybe that is a better spot for it. Maybe I can take some time and give a little more detail into our situation.
Thank you again eveyone