Hi,
I was your wife 5 years ago. My husband found AA and has maintained his sobriety for over 11 years. For 7 years I was rapped up in this disease of alcoholism. Yeah... no amount of frothy appeals would make me quit.
12 Step Programs help the addict ( like AA) and the person who cares and loves that addict (Al-Anon). That would also be my suggestion to you.
Bobbi