Originally Posted by
dandylion 
Katchie...I am soo soo sorry that you are suffering from something that you had absolutely no control over.....
Out of pure suriosity...is your ex showing any sort of remorse, at all...?
When we first learned our son was arrested, the first thing out of his mouth was, "I'm not taking the blame for this one."
He is very upset, no doubt, but seems unwilling to admit straight out he didn't parent. He has never been able to say "no" to the boys and they know this. He has, however, said little things here and there that do lead me to believe deep down he knows he should have done things differently.