Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
OMG, you're dealing with a couple of idiots. Dad has to clearly state, I think, that he is going to refuse to pay for a lawyer.
There lays the problem...dad clearly stating anything..lol! That is always a comedy! I have witnessed the "clearly stating" of many things only to walk away extremely confused. I can only imagine how his clearly stated plan was interpreted by our son the other day in jail.