Thank you Maia, lawers seem so serious at this stage but yes, something Ill think about, Im so pressed for time at the minute with one thing or another...i work full time and study full time too, I honestly dont know how ive coped with things the way they are with him. One things for sure, this move is going to be heartbreaking and so so difficult..but then my current life is heartbreaking and so so difficult. Its just so sad, I love him so much and want him to be better/well. Putting my own health and happiness is now paramount but Im going to miss him and worry so badly. Im hoping to still see him and support him without but on my own terms.