Originally Posted by
tomsteve 
saying you feel youre dealing with 2 different people at times and some of the other things you describe has me thinking there could be something deeper than just depression or SAD, which a psychologist/psychiatrist/therapist could help with.
HOWEVER
has he worked the steps of the program?
This was my first thought too. I had a relative that suffered from alcoholism. He was also an untreated bi-polar. He experienced highs and lows. During his highs, he would spend a lot of money on his interest. Sadly, he never found sobriety and lost his battle with alcoholism.
I'm not saying your RABF is this but that was my first thought without knowing more of your story.