This place is life saver, isn't it? I posted a similar story a few months ago. After 15 years of marriage (ughh), my divorce was final today! Yay! I was just in the kitchen making myself a cup of tea and I realized how good I felt. The house is so peaceful without his drama and rage.
Congrats on discovering clarity. Congrats for figuring things out way sooner than I did.
Please stick around and share. As you've discovered, there is healing power in sharing and listening.